More LDS Young Women Should Serve LDS Missions
Anyone that knows Kristy and I well, knows our story. We met in the summer of 1991 not long before I turned 22... and just barely before Kristy turned 20. We dated for about two weeks in San Diego and then continued dating while attending BYU (in Provo, UT) for the next two semesters. The following summer (1992) I worked down in Arizona while she returned home to San Diego. She filed her papers to serve an LDS mission that summer and left to serve in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. She served for 18 months, during which time our primary (and practically only) source of communication was by postal mail. Not long after she returned home, we were married in May 1994... nearly 3 years after we had met.

I would not have had it any other way.

When I was serving my mission, I met and served with a great many sister missionaries. They were all strong, capable, competent, and confident women... perhaps partly because of who they were before they were called to serve, but I think that it was largely because of the their experiences as a missionary. Most of those sister missionaries, I'll probably never talk with or see again for as long as I live. Such is the way of the LDS missionary... you meet a great many people, many of them add a little something to your life, and then *poof* they are gone. But some of the sister missionaries I served with became close friends... such as Sisters McHardy, Grover, Quinn, Call, 馬, and 楊. So great was my impression of these fine sisters that while I was traveling back home to the states, I resolved that I would marry a returned missionary (not specifically one of those named above per se, but simply *a* returned sister missionary).

So, when Kristy disclosed to me very early in our dating life that she was going to go on a mission... I was completely supportive and all for it. I would certainly miss her while she was gone I presupposed (and I did in fact miss her a great deal), but like I said...

I would not have had it any other way.

I never put any pressure on her to forego her mission. (It would have been pointless anyway.) Why would I? She is, without a doubt, someone who is worth waiting for. We were planning on getting married; it was pretty much a done deal. So why not wait? Why not marry without regret? I couldn't think of a single compelling reason to marry as young as we were with the one exception of, *ahem*, spending a whole lot of intimate time with her. But that could wait: wait while she spent some time serving others - experiencing some small corner of a world where she possibly could make a difference in the life of someone else, wait while I finished school (I graduated with my BS just after she returned and just before we were married), wait while I saved up a bit of money to start a life together, and wait until we were older and more mature. It worked out perfectly for us. We have been living happily ever after since then.

I would not have had it any other way.

So why don't more young women go on missions? I have no idea. Since we moved here to Sammamish 9+ years ago, there has not been a single young woman in our fairly large LDS ward that has served an LDS mission. There is one young woman who recently filed her papers and received a call (to serve in Russia). When she filed her papers, she was intent on serving. But since that time, she met (and presumably) fell in love with a (presumably) fine young man. Her now three-week-old boyfriend has recently asked her to cancel her plans to serve her mission and marry him instead. She hasn't said "no" yet.

*sigh*

It may be that Eliana (currently age 5) will be the first young woman to serve an LDS mission from this ward that we reside in... some 16 years hence.

Such as it is, I am certainly grateful that my daughters have the mother that they do. If nothing else, Eliana and Olivia will know that their mother chose to postpone compelling interests (e.g. me!) and serve. And they'll know Kristy was much better because of it, and they'll know that because Kristy will tell them from her own personal experience. Kristy's sisters all served as well, and the one sister-in-law that lives up here... Aunt Angela also served. Those are good influences on my girls and good examples to my girls - very good. My nieces will all probably serve (well, hopefully). There is a strong missionary pedigree in the Sorenson clan that lives up here with us. So that's a plus.

I know we won't be able to force Eliana or Olivia to serve LDS missions. Hopefully, we can persuade them to go. Please God. Amen.

Whole Foods... Overrated and Overpriced
I have been hearing all kinds of rave reviews from family and friends about Whole Foods Market since they recently opened an eastside location in Bellevue. The store has probably been open a year, but since there are at least a dozen other grocery stores between us and the Whole Foods Bellevue location, we just haven't gotten around to visiting the store.

Well, we have now visited Whole Foods twice in the last week to buy food for Eliana's family party and her big let's-invite-all-our-friend-and-family party that we are hosting tomorrow. In a word, I was unimpressed with Whole Foods. The bakery is ordinary. The produce is not noteworthy and is nothing better than you can find at your local "non-Whole" grocery store. The "365 value brand" is hardly a value for the poor quality of the product line. The variety and selection of off-the-shelf food is dismal. Whole Foods does appear to have very good meat, fish, and deli counters, and the cheese counter looks top rate... but it doesn't look like it is anything better than what I can find at Larry's. Yet Larry's has better produce, a better bakery, and several thousand more products available on the shelf... products that I would actually stock in my pantry at home.

Basically Whole Foods is just a bigger (but not necessarily better) version of a PCC Natural Market. There is a PCC very close to us down in Issaquah - a store we have probably visited about 3 or 4 times in the 6 years we have lived here. Why so few times? Because the product offering is so narrow at PCC - and it is just slightly broader at Whole Foods... it's just organic this and organic that... nothing "mainstream".

Now, don't get me wrong, I love organic produce and organic dairy, but I'd rather pour my organic milk over a bowl of Crunch Berries than some of that nasty organic Kashi. However, there isn't a box of Crunch Berries to be found at Whole Foods (nor at PCC for that matter). Yet, I can buy a nice delicious half-gallon of organic milk at QFC, Safeway, or Larry's and (perish the thought) at the same store, pick up a big 21oz box of Crunch Berries.

Whole Foods... there are better options out there.

(Update Tue Mar 14 08:58:09 PST 2006 // they're -> there)

Designer Mortgages
I recently received the King County official appraisal of my home's value; the value which will determine how much property taxes I will have to pay in 2006. The valuation of my property and improvements has risen, in one year, by almost 10%. Sure, the increased valuation is great news if I was interested in selling my home in the near future, but since I'm not moving, it only means I'll pay more taxes.

I don't mind paying taxes, I would just prefer to pay as little as possible. And so, as a faithful steward of my talents, I had been using the 2002 sale of my neighbor's house as a "real-world" example of home prices in my area. After my original neighbors were forced to relocate, their house languished on the market for about 1½ years and finally sold at auction after foreclosure; at a price below that of the original purchase price paid (and below what we paid for our smaller home). This helped me lower my property tax bill (and keep it unchanged) in each of the last two years.

Unfortunately, last year a house up the street (that is just slightly bigger than our own) sold for $650k. Thus, it will be impossible for me to use my former comparable (the house next door that sold for less than $500k) now that this new data point is pegging prices upward. Sigh.

I've long thought home prices are rising too fast in much too short a time, creating a "housing bubble" that eventually must burst. I've determined that the root cause of this is the proliferation of "Designer Mortgages" such as the piggyback and interest-only loans which came into vogue only a few years ago.

From the link to the Bruce Bartlett article above:

An important reason for the increasing loan-to-value ratio is the proliferation of what are called "piggyback" loans. Basically, a borrower takes out two mortgages simultaneously - a first mortgage and a second, piggyback mortgage on top. The first mortgage will be what is called "conforming," which means that it can easily be resold on the secondary market. The balance might be in the form of a home equity loan or credit line that is used to make the initial purchase, rather than taken out afterwards.

The effect of breaking the total mortgage into two parts like this is that it allows people to borrow more money with lower incomes than would be possible if they had a single "jumbo" loan, as would have been the case in the past. According to a recent report from PMI, a mortgage insurance company, in many hot housing markets 60 percent of home sales are financed with piggyback loans. The size of piggyback loans is also increasing rapidly, from $37,757 in 2001 to $51,617 in 2004.

Such loans are riskier than traditional loans because there is less equity backing the loan, making lenders more vulnerable to loss in the event of an economic downturn or falloff in home prices.

Further adding to the risk of default is the proliferation of interest-only loans. Historically, mortgage payments included a payment of principal that reduced the outstanding loan amount. In 2004, a third of new home sales were financed with mortgages having no payment of principal, according to LoanPerformance. As with piggyback loans, interest-only loans allow people to borrow more and buy more expensive housing, but with less of a margin to protect lenders from default.  (Emphasis mine.)

The high "loan-to-value" ratio basically has created a false demand for housing for what should otherwise be unaffordable to a typical borrower. As this false demand has gone up, so have home prices. But as Bartlett (and Alan Greenspan) have warned, it will likely not last.