The Daily Biff - The Terrible 2s

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Tue, 05 Dec 2006

The Terrible 2s
Eliana can be the sweetest and most angelic child you could possibly imagine. However, from time to time she will throw herself into a rage over the smallest offense imaginable. This morning she went into a rage because I put milk on her breakfast cereal, and apparently, she didn't want milk on her cereal. When Eliana gets in rage mode, she will scream, kick, bite herself, bite her clothing, and bite others or she will pull at her hair or scratch herself (and others).

Obviously, if we could sidestep the triggers which provoke Eliana that would be ideal... but she has at times gone into a rage instead of stopping bad behavior after being asked. So some tantrums almost seem unavoidable. Kristy and I believe the best way to deal with the tantrums is to respond as positively as possible until the rage passes. Yet, it is difficult to deal with such irrational behavior and I freely admit that, at times, I'm not doing a good job at alleviating these situations and sometimes even exacerbate them. Note to self: a soft voice and lots of hugs work better than anything else.

Berkeley used to get all tense and clinch his teeth and his arms when he became upset at that age. I remember we would respond by acting as if he was flexing his muscles; the result was that the situation turned into a positive one instead of a negative one. Berkeley can still throw a fit now and again, but they have become much less frequent. Hopefully, Eliana will grow out of these rages as well.

:: Posted by rus on Tue, 05 Dec 2006 10:19 pm
:: Filed under /daily_journal/2006

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