New Year's Eve Recap
We spent a very low-key New Year's Eve with family. The Corays drove up
to spend the night at our home. We hosted a small dinner and had the
Sorensons over. While the kids were having fun, the adults ate and
conversed and played a few board games. After the kids retired and the
Sorensons left to return home. Kristy and I and the Corays watched a
movie
(Talledega
Nights) and played a card game
(Uno
Attack!).
When the new year passed, I popped open a bottle of
dealcoholized sparkling wine to drink
(Sutter Home Fre Sparkling Wine)
which I thought was excellent; but no one else was impressed.
Actually, a more correct characterization of the reaction was that it
was widely spurned. The fact that I was the contrarian of
this small sample group is probably a good omen for the New Year. Heh.
Beethoven's Ninth and The Georgian
Per our own holiday tradition, Kristy and I attended a performance of
Beethoven's Ninth Symphony by the Seattle Symphony and Chorale tonight
(see 2005 review
here).
As per my own suggestion last year (and it was one year ago today no
less), we dined first at
The
Georgian. We had a wonderful evening and shared it with some
friends, Greg and Julie (James).
Our meal was excellent. Like last year, we ordered the 4-course prix
fixe menu. Our first course consisted of an Ahi tuna carpaccio with a
crab salad stuffed with caviar. It was very good. The appetizer was
followed by a serving of petite crab cakes that were placed in a shallow
dish of crab bisque. For our main course, Kristy ordered the veal
porterhouse with seared foie gras and I enjoyed one of my favorites -
seared scallops. My scallops were exceptional. For dessert, we both
had the superb Georgian black and white chocolate soufflé - it
was just as good as I remember from the year before. Yum yum.
The symphony performance was wonderfully moving. My humble opinion
is that Beethoven's Ninth is the single greatest piece of music ever
written by the hand of man. We upgraded our seats this year to First
Tier box seats - they were great.
We'll be back the same time next year.
Sorenson Holiday Party
We traveled down to the Corays this evening for the Sorenson Holiday
Party. We enjoyed a potluck dinner (I made some
barbecue
pork), did our annual "bring the most hideous gift you can find"
white elephant gift exchange, and played some board games. Scott busted
out a new board game he has been hyping for several weeks, but we
arrived too late to play it - so I'll review it a future date.
From Snow to Snow
We left the Utah snow yesterday and drove back home from our Christmas
vacation. Unfortunately we got off to a
late start (because of a power steering problem with the ML)
and as a result did not arrive back home until about 2am this morning.
Before we left, we heard from Matt that Snoqualmie Pass conditions could
be a bit sketchy because of a snow storm.
It was snowing on the Pass when we drove over, but the
plows were out in full force and we were able to summit. However, once
we hit North Bend (where the snow plows were turning around and heading
back east) the road conditions deteriorated rapidly.
When we spoke with Matt on the phone, he remarked that this would be a
day to determine if the extra change we dropped down for the all-wheel
drive Mercedes SUV would prove to be money well spent. Well, I'm very
happy to report that the Benz performed admirably... and then some. In
fact, we must have passed a couple of dozen stranded vehicles on the
side of the road between North Bend and our own driveway.
On the way up snake hill alone, we passed about 8
vehicles that had pulled off
to the side of the road (or had slid off into the side of the road)
because they lacked the traction to make it to the top. At
the sharp 120 degree curve about halfway up snake hill, an Infiniti SUV
was sitting on the road idling while the driver scurried about outside.
I slowed to a stop and asked the driver if he needed any help. "Nope,"
came the reply, "I'm just putting the chains on the tires." I pressed
on; the ML made its way to the top of snake hill and required no such
assistance.
When the day finally comes that we replace the ML, it will definitely be
with another Mercedes SUV (I test drove the GL yesterday morning... nice
car!). The Benz is a solid choice and has proved to be money well spent.
After we returned home, I snapped a picture of the snow that had built up
on the Benz. Check it out:
Today was my last day off for Christmas vacation (back to the grind
tomorrow!). The kids and I spent part of the day outside playing in the
snow. The kids had been somewhat disappointed by the dry powdery Utah
snow because it could not be packed and rolled into snowman components.
The wet snow that falls around here is perfectly suited for snowman
construction... so we built a couple of them. Fun.
Christmas Vacation: Day 5 - Christmas Day
Well, Christmas Day... it has now come... and gone. The kids have been
actively anticipating today for at least a couple of weeks; perhaps a
little bit longer. We woke up today and had some pancakes, and then let
the kids open their stocking presents. We then bathed the kids and got
them dressed and lined them up in front of their
"Santa bags".
It sounds like we did a lot before the kids could get their first crack
at opening presents, but we started opening gifts at a respectable
hour... at around 9am.
We didn't get the kids too many toys... they mainly received clothes and
little dollar-store trinkets. They did each get one "big" gift.
Berkeley got a
race track;
Eliana got a
doll house;
and Olivia got, well, she got only small items (she's still little!).
Here are a few pictures we took while the kids opened their presents:
There are many more pictures
here.
After we were done opening all of the loot, we packed up the kids and
motored over to Bryan/Jess's house to hang out for an hour or so. Then
we drove down to Brent/Shantell's for lunch and stopped by Mark/Jen's
house for dinner. The kids had a great time playing with everyone
else's new toys. When we finally made our way back to Mom/Dad's house,
the kids got their first chance to play with their own new stuff. It
was a long fun-filled day.
Christmas Vacation: Day 4
James was blessed today. Then everyone congregated at the folks house
for dinner and some birthday pie for Bryan, who turned 30 today. Good
pie... per usual.
As I mentioned last April (see
here),
Olivia is part of three cousins (on my side) that were born just 4
months apart. (Eliana is also one of three cousins, on my side,
that were born very close together; 4 weeks apart). This Christmas
trip has been the first opportunity for Olivia to meet her closely
aged cousins (Hailey and James) and to be together at the same time.
Olivia (five months old today!) is the oldest of the three. Here
is a picture of them together (click to enlarge):
Christmas Vacation: Day 3
For Berkeley, the highlight of any trip to Salt Lake City is to go
downtown and ride the white train (UTA Trax). Tonight that is just what
we did... drove downtown to Gateway, hopped on the Trax, and then rode
down to Temple Square to see the lights. Here are some pictures:
Christmas Vacation: Day 2
This evening my Mom and Dad arranged a Santa visit with
the grandkids. This is something my Grandma and Grandpa Berrett did
when I was growing up and my Mom and Dad have recently re-established
the tradition. Here are some pictures of each of us taken a
turn on Santa's lap (click to enlarge):
Christmas Vacation: Day 1
We are now in Salt Lake City on Christmas vacation. We left last night
at around 7pm and drove through the night. Kristy and I took turns
driving, so we are both tired, but not completely wasted. The kids did
great... Olivia pretty much slept the whole way. Berkeley and Eliana
watched a movie and then zonked out until we were only about an hour
away from Grandma/Grandpa's house.
After we settled in, we bundled the kids up and did some sledding. Here
are some sample pictures (click to enlarge):
The full gallery is available
here.
Berkeley was a much more capable sledder this year than he was
last
year. His favorite thing to do this year was get a running start so
that he could take the hill with a bit more velocity.
In the evening we drove over to the home of Kristy's brother, Robert,
and his new bride... Jessica. They prepared a very nice dinner for us.
Karen met us there for dinner as well.
We stayed and chatted while the kids watched part of a movie. Robert
and Jessica leave for Colorado tomorrow and Karen is driving back home
to San Diego for Christmas so this was the only chance we had to visit
with them.
Holding Her Own
Olivia is slowly developing her fine motor skills. Today she was able
to hold her bottle in place long enough (about 30 seconds) to take a
few sips before it would tumble to one side or the other. It's still a
work in progress, but I'm still very proud of her. Here is a picture:
A Special Bond
I spent last night over at the Thurmond's house with their two kids
as well as my two oldest. Matt and Kathy were unexpectedly
indisposed for the evening. In order to fit the crew into the ML, I put
Berkeley up front on a booster seat and the three girls
(Elizabeth, Eliana, and Emily) in the back. We drove over to
Snoqualmie and I patched in a generator to their electrical panel
in order to fire up the Thurmond's furnace and juice their
freezer (they are still without power... 4 days later). We stayed up
late (9:30pm), watched some movies, played with toys, and ate a bunch of
junk food.
On our way back home this morning, we used the same seating arrangement
that we had the evening before - the girls sat in the back and
Berkeley sat next to me in the front. With the benefit of the daylight,
I now noticed that the booster seat Berkeley sat upon raised his
forehead up
to my own eye-level. He appeared to be quite content sitting in the
front seat of the ML and enjoyed his elevated position - I can't be
sure, but I'm fairly certain this was the first time he has sat in the
front seat of the ML. I stole looks at him all the way down I-90 from
the Thurmonds. As we drove, his expression suggested that he was
suppressing a small smirk as he surveyed the unencumbered view in
front of him.
While driving north on East Lake Sammamish Parkway toward our home, I
took one of those extended moments and looked over at my son. I
stared. His hair was tousled from the previous night's sleep;
he didn't look unkempt, but the disheveled appearance gave him the look
of a much older boy. His eyes were wide open and alert; the soft
morning light suffused through the overcast skies and deepened the sage
color in his irises. His cheeks and chin were angular and hid what is
left of the plump rosiness his face used to bear as a toddler. His
hands seemed all at once larger than they should be, or at least, larger
than I expected. I took his left hand in my right hand and gave it a
few squeezes. He looked over at me briefly and then back toward the
road ahead.
"Father and Son... special friends.", he said with a smile.
Then as quickly as I had taken his hand, he let go of mine. I put my
own hand on the wheel and looked back toward the road ahead.
Three Days of Darkness
We spent the day at home yesterday. Church was canceled. I spent the
morning cleaning out our refrigerator and throwing many of the items
away. The others I stowed in containers out on our back porch. In the
afternoon, my
home
teacher brought over a generator that he no longer needed as his
power had been restored. I went down to Home Depot and Lowe's in search
for some heavy
gauge wire and a male L14-30 4 prong locking connector. I found some
nice 6-gauge wire, but the hardware stores supplies of the connectors
were completely depleted. So instead I used a couple of
severed 14-gauge 120v extension cords and patched the generator power
directly into both phases of the electrical panel. Soon,
I had our entire home's electrical system back on-line. It was
nice.
The kids went crazy-happy when the lights came back on under generator
power. The cable was
still out (both TV and Internet), but we have an over-the-air antenna in
our attic to pull down the locally broadcast HDTV channels. We tuned in
our TV just in time for Charlie Brown's Christmas on ABC. Kristy and I
then busied ourselves doing once-neglected chores around the house for
the remainder of the evening.
Our power to the street was eventually restored last night at
around 10pm. When I
went to bed at around 1am, the Comcast TV cable signal was back
on-line, but the cable Internet service was still down. This morning
the Internet is back up. So our life now has completely returned to
normal after our three days of darkness.
Update on Power Outage
We are over at the Sharps today enjoying their generator and T1
Internet access. The kids are playing, watching movies, and other
fun things. We are still without power and our land line finally
gave up the ghost. I guess the local POP ran out of battery power
or something. Our cell phone network (Cingular) doesn't appear to
have power at the local cell towers... so no coverage.
We have heat from our two gas fireplaces and our stove top range is gas
powered. So we can heat up food and have warm meals. Our candles are
getting smaller, but we have a couple of flashlights and a couple of
butane lanterns. We are in no danger of freezing or starving - the power
outage, for us at least, is more of an inconvenience than anything.
We will need to move our food from the
refrigerator to outside today if the power isn't restored. There is
frost on the lawn when we wake up in the morning, so it is sufficiently
cold around here to keep our perishables (such as milk and eggs) from
spoiling. Items in our chest freezer located in the garage
still seem adequately frozen.
I just topped off the Mercedes at a gas station close to the Sharps.
The station had recently restored their power. I waited in line
for half an hour.
While I was in line I was listening to the radio and heard reports of
people waiting in line for over an hour to get gasoline. Crazy.
I also heard that almost 800,000 thousand Puget Sound residents are
still without power. Incredible. From the shape that our local power
lines are in, I would not expect our own power to come back on-line for
a couple more days.
Power Outage
Our power is out due to recent storms
and may be for some time; possibly 3-4 days. I'm
currently working (and blogging) from the Sharp's residence. Dave has a
generator and a T-1. While driving over here, I literally drove under
a dozen trees that were hanging over the roadway - suspended in the air
by the power lines. Many roads were blocked completely by fallen trees.
Most local grocery stores and gas stations are closed. Our refrigerator
is getting warmer and warmer and warmer.
I have put off purchasing a generator for too
long... I'll buy one next week. I have already done the electrical
wiring required to patch a generator into our panel, I just have not got
around to buying the actual generator. The generator that I want has a
capacity of generating 10000 watts and can run on one of three different
fuel sources: natural gas, propane, or gasoline. It costs
around 3 grand... ouch. But now that I need one, I'm kicking myself.
Lesson learned: Be Prepared.
Our home phone line is still up, but our cell phones are useless. If we
had power, I wonder if our cable-based internet service would still be
up. Since our phone line is still working, I would imagine that
phone-based internet service (e.g. DSL) would still work... so I may
want to consider switching ISPs sometime in the future, or possibly
subscribing to both a cable-based and a phone-based ISP.
(Update Sat Dec 16 18:37:54 PST 2006 // corrected wattage rating)
Positive Mental Energy
I started watching
this video
yesterday... it was sent to me by a professional colleague.
I have only watched the first 15 minutes of the video (it's
over an hour and a half long) and I am intrigued by the underlying
message; that of projecting a positive mental attitude.
Although many of the motives presented in the video for
maintaining a positive mental outlook may not be completely above
board (i.e. attaining wealth, acquiring material assets, etc), I believe
that there are many other tangible and intangible benefits from
projecting positive energy. The video doesn't say it is easy - and it
isn't - but I think the benefits are undeniable.
For example, I was speaking with a friend a few days ago on the phone;
I needed to get their new address for our Christmas card mailing. We had
not talked for a couple of years, but I knew that they had recently
moved because of some information I heard through a mutual friend. We
knew this family back when we were living
in Provo and going to school... as were they. Now of course, our lives are
completely different, and so we spent some time catching up. One of the
last times I saw this particular person was at a dinner that I hosted in
Kristy's honor (when she graduated with her PhD) back in 2000.
This friend can still
remember to this day (or so she related) how impressed she was with me
and a "change" that she perceived in me. She had heretofore thought of
me as somewhat of a "curmudgeon" and "anti-social" (which is probably
true), yet on that day her perception of me radically changed... to
that of someone that was "completely happy" (or something to that
effect). Why? Simply because of the way I positively presented myself
on a single day. It made an impact.
Also, I have been trying recently to react much more positively to
Eliana's
tantrums. Though it is extremely difficult to maintain a patient and
positive attitude during these tantrums, I genuinely believe that in the
last two weeks that her tantrums are decreasing in both quantity and
duration. I'm confident that the improvements are the result of reacting
to the situation in a much more positive way.
The film describes the result of projecting positive energy as a
metaphysical "Law of Attraction" - if we project or radiate positive
mental energy, we will attract positive people and experiences.
Likewise, if we choose to radiate negative mental energy, we will
attract negativity. It seems somewhat of a naïve
concept when taken at face value, yet at its core there is truth
to the matter. The "light" of persons that project confidence,
faith, happiness, and cheer tend to brighten those around them.
Whereas, the negativity of one person in a group (such as at home)
can serve to darken the entire environment.
Yet, the short term effort required to "be happy" seems daunting at
times. It is a struggle... I struggle... with this. It is too easy
for me to get caught up in short term strife and forget about how
blessed I have been. Only when I back and look at the big picture do I
really see everything in the proper perspective.
What reason do I have to not be happy? Seriously.
Team Shirts
Berkeley has two rugby-style shirts that have numbers on them. They
have, for whatever reason, become in his mind "team shirts" because of
the numbers. Every day he asks if he can wear one of these shirts. I
suppose he is either interested in numbers or he is interested in
participating in team sports. As such,
I enrolled him in a sport sampler at the community center that begins
early in 2007.
He'll attend 3 classes of basketball, 3 classes of baseball (well, tee
ball), and 3 class of soccer. A t-shirt was included in the cost of the
registration... hopefully the t-shirt will come with a number on the
back.
Eliana the Caregiver
I have very dry skin around the heels of my feet; it has become a bit
worse lately because I've been jogging Berkeley in the rain. The feet
get wet and then dry out and have been cracking. I need to get some
heavy duty lotion or maybe a prescription or something. It definitely
wouldn't hurt to see a dermatologist.
Anyway, tonight the kids and I took a lengthy dip in the hot tub.
Immediately after the soak, we had special time. I spent the evening
with Eliana. While I was sitting on the floor playing "dress up", she
saw some of the cracking on my feet and expressed some concern:
"Daddy, you have an ow-ie on your foot."
"Yes, I do.", I replied.
Concerned, Eliana continued, "Do you need to see the doctor?"
"Yes, I probably should."
Then Eliana did her best imitation of Kristy and blurted out
spontaneously, "Oh, sweetheart!"
Then, a pause as she stood there in thought.
"You stay right there Daddy, I'll get you a band-aid."
"Eliana, that's OK... just a kiss will make me feel better.", I assured her.
And I got that kiss followed by a very concerned hug. It was nice.
Making the Nightly Rounds
Part of my evening ritual before I retire is to walk from bedroom to
bedroom and check in on all the kids, pull the covers around them tight,
and then give them each a kiss on their cheeks. Sometimes, like
tonight, I'll just stand there and look at them sleep for several
moments. They each sleep so peacefully. As the kids gets older,
I know this privilege of mine can't last... but I am enjoying it for
now.
Pray for Knights
Berkeley said family prayer this evening, here is an excerpt:
"Bless that the knights will come and get any bad guys that try and get
in our home and that the knights will keep us safe."
Olivia Rolling Over
Olivia is slowly developing a decent command of life's first
gymnastic skill: rolling over. Today she rolled from back to
stomach to back again quite capably I'm told (I was down in
the office working). She is a very active baby and is constantly
kicking and grabbing at things that come into her field of view.
She is also just tall enough now to touch the bottom of the
bouncer. She doesn't quite have the core muscle development to
keep her face from mashing against the inside front pad of the
bouncer seat. She does have good neck control though.
Eye Close-Ups
Our portrait is being produced at
Brandes next week.
The final
product is created on canvas and is a combination of painting and
photography. As part of the process, we have been asked to provide
close-up photos of each of our eyes to match for color. Here is what
Kristy and I have prepared for the three kids (click to enlarge):
All five of our eyes can be reviewed
here.
Root Beer Floats
A couple of days ago I made myself a root beer float. Berkeley was in
the kitchen and wanted a taste. He is now hooked. For dessert last
night I made them both root beer floats and again tonight. I offered
them a large array of dessert options including long-time favorites
like Oreos and milk... none were more desirable than the root beer
float. Berkeley claims that root beer floats are now his "favorite
thing in the whole world".
The Terrible 2s
Eliana can be the sweetest and most angelic child you could possibly
imagine. However, from time to time she will throw herself into a rage
over the smallest offense imaginable. This morning she went into a rage
because I put milk on her breakfast cereal, and apparently, she didn't
want milk on her cereal.
When Eliana gets in rage mode, she will scream, kick,
bite herself, bite her clothing, and bite others or she will pull at
her hair or scratch herself (and others).
Obviously, if we could
sidestep the triggers which provoke Eliana that would be ideal... but
she has at times gone into a rage instead of stopping bad behavior after
being asked. So some tantrums almost seem unavoidable.
Kristy and I believe the best way to deal with the tantrums is to
respond as positively as possible until the rage passes. Yet, it is
difficult to deal with such irrational behavior and I freely admit
that, at times, I'm not doing a good job at alleviating these
situations and sometimes even exacerbate them. Note to self: a soft
voice and lots of hugs work better than anything else.
Berkeley used to get all tense and clinch his teeth and his arms when he
became upset at that age. I remember we would respond by acting as if
he was flexing his muscles; the result was that the situation turned
into a positive one instead of a negative one. Berkeley can still
throw a fit now and again, but they have become much less frequent.
Hopefully, Eliana will grow out of these rages as well.
Eliana Dental Trauma Follow-Up #2
I almost forgot to mention that Eliana had her final follow-up dental
visit for the
dental
trauma she experienced back in early September. The most damaged
tooth, as the dentist expected, has pretty much returned to its normal
position. X-rays taken today confirmed that the tooth is healthy... so
that is a relief. For as bad it looked back in September, it is
incredible that her smile has returned to normal.
Olivia Four Month Checkup
Kristy took Olivia to the doctor today for her belated 4-month checkup.
Olivia was measured, inspected, and received four shots. Olivia weighs
a scant 12 lbs even, which puts her in the 25th percentile for her age.
By comparison, Eliana weighed in at 15 lbs 5 ounces at the same age.
Eliana weighed more at 2 months old (12 lbs 4 ounces) than Olivia does
now at 4+ months. Berkeley at 4 months weighed 15 lbs 7 ounces.
Despite being a featherweight, Olivia is tall for her age. She measures
25¼" in length, which places her in the 95th percentile. Eliana
was a bit taller at 4 months; she measured 26¼" (97th percentile).
Berkeley measured 26½" at 4 months.
Immediately after her shots, Olivia wasn't in the best mood. But after
a nap and a dose of Tylenol, she was pretty happy. She "talks" quite a
lot, or at least, much more than I remember the other two kids doing at
the same age. Today while sitting in her bouncer on the kitchen island,
she seemed to pick a spot on the ceiling (or the pot rack) and talk in
that general direction for about half an hour. Her temperament is
normal (happy when fed and rested; grumpy when hungry and tired). She
does love personal face-to-face contact and will light up if anyone
pays her just a scant amount of attention. She has a great smile; one
that reminds me of Berkeley when he was Olivia's age.
Southern California Vacation Log: Day 3: Family Portrait Day
We spent the morning exploring our
resort.
I doubt we will have
much time to hang out here, it's too bad because it is a
real nice place. We practically have the whole resort to
ourselves. We played at the pool for a bit while Kristy got some
spa treatments. Then we played with the outdoor billiards table
and some large-sized chess pieces and checker boards near the
pool. There is a very nice kids play area almost immediately
adjacent to our condo that includes a sand box (with sand toys), a
putting green, a basketball sport court, and a toddler playground.
In the afternoon, we motored up to Westlake Village for our
portrait sitting with
Mark Brandes of
Brandes Portraiture.
I forgot my shoes and socks at Dick/Bertha's
house, so we had to make a quick stop at Nordstrom's in our old
stomping grounds, Woodland Hills, to buy some new ones. Oops.
Even with the small delay, we still managed to make it to
the studio on time... albeit barely.
Mr. Brandes took us to edge of a nearby man-made lake for our family
portrait sitting. He set up the chairs in a grassy area in between
the sidewalk (we were just a few feet away from a fairly busy
street) and the water's edge. I'm sure if I was driving down the
street adjacent to the lake, I wouldn't have given the spot where
we sat a second thought. So, I tip my hat to Mr. Brandes for
having a great eye; our resulting family portrait is fantastic (in
my very humble opinion). Here is a low-res version of the
portrait:
We also tried to get a picture of just the kids at our outside
location, but the kids were not cooperating. Here are a couple of
candid photos that April (Brandes) took of our efforts.
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This is a wide shot of the site where we took our portrait. You
can see the sidewalk and the road on the left hand side of the
picture. Mark is in the foreground waiting patiently while we try
and get the kids to sit still for just one second(!).
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More of the same - trying to get a good picture of the kids. None
of our efforts were successful. This one is cute of Eliana though.
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After we returned to the studio, we spent about a half an hour
trying to get the kids to all sit still for an indoor portrait.
The results were pretty poor. We did manage to get one decent
shot. It's not great (no smiles). But it will do. Here is a
low-res version:
We ordered a big (6' by 5') version of the family portrait and a
small version (approximate 2' by 1') of the kids portrait. They
won't be ready until sometime early in 2007.
Washing Dishes By Hand
Our dishwasher is on the blink, it isn't draining very well. I
disassembled it the other day and cleaned it out and that helped
some, but it still needs some work. We have resorted to using a
lot of paper products lately and are washing dishes by hand when
necessary. Surprisingly, the kids love to wash dishes by hand
and volunteer to help. Of course, "helping" technically means
"playing in the soapy water" but they do manage to clean a couple
of dishes. Here is a picture of our little helpers:
Kitchen Tent
After church today I took some time to play with my kids. We made a
tent in the kitchen using a blanket to cover the kitchen island. We
pretended we were camping. We ate marshmellows and then pretened to
sleep. Here are a couple of pictures. I love the one with the legs
protruding out from the "tent" (click to enlarge):
Trip to San Diego
Robert and Jessica were married today in the San Diego temple
(see
pics).
We arose early (Kristy, myself, and Olivia) and traveled with Kathy to
the airport to catch an early morning flight. We thought we gave
ourselves plenty of time for the annoying security checkpoint, but
the line was incredibly long. So we
used Olivia and a lame (but effective) "nursing infant" excuse to cut
to the front. Thanks Olivia!
After a pleasant flight, we arrived in
San Diego, picked up our rental car, and traveled down I-5 to the
temple. We made it with plenty of time to spare, just under an hour
before the 11am ceremony was to begin.
While we waited outside the temple doors enjoying the perfect San Diego
weather, Kristy's family members arrived one by one. It was great
to see everyone. It has been almost 5
years since the last time all ten of Kristy's siblings were together
in one place (at the last wedding). Kristy's parents flew back from
Ecuador, where they have been serving a temple mission for the past year
or so. Kristy's father is a temple sealer (he sealed Kristy and myself);
he officiated at the ceremony.
After the marriage, we gathered around outside again and took several
family pictures. Then we returned to 11 Center (the Sorenson home base)
for lunch. We sat around and talked, relaxed, and played a few games.
In the evening we attended the reception. It was held in the backyard
of some family friends and was very lovely. The food was quite good.
I spent most of the time snapping pictures while Kristy chatted with
family and friends. It was a good day.
Personal Visit with Steve Marsing
Before I left for Seattle today, I drove down to Skyline High School and
had a personal visit with Steve. He was still glowing from the party
the night before... I could tell the party really meant a lot to him. While
Steve attended to some administrative matters, I
sat in his office and thumbed through some of the old swim team picture
books that he had on his shelves. There were many of me in there.
Sheesh... I was a tall, skinny kid back in the day.
After Steve returned, we looked through a few of pictures and talked
about a few of the old memories and then set out for the swimming pool
building.
As we walked, we chatted about what we have both been doing since 1987.
Steve's oldest kids (two twin boys) were 6 back when I was in high
school, and one of his kids had not been born yet. Now his kids are all
grown up, two are married, and one is expecting Steve's first
grandchild. Time flies.
We arrived at the swimming building and entered. Nothing in the lobby
had changed in 20 years. I looked down over the railing to the counter
and the doors to the swimming administrative offices beyond... all the
same. We walked first up to the observation deck, a
place where we had innumerable team meetings. It was filled with gym
equipment now. We then walked downstairs, through the boys locker room,
and into swimming pool area itself. It all looked pretty much the same
as it did 20 years ago, especially the locker room. I went over to my
old locker and opened it. Steve told me that they had all been replaced
since my day, but they looked exactly the same to me.
The pool had changed somewhat. The diving boards were gone. The
permanent lifeguard stand was gone. The analog swimming clocks were gone;
replaced with digital ones. The lane lines were in. I walked up to the
edge of the pool and looked at the tiles beneath the water. How many
hours had I spent looking at those tiles, swimming lap after lap? Steve
and I then walked over to the old record boards. The boards were still
there, but the old records were all gone now. New ones set in the last
few years populated the board... apparently Skyline is now the swimming
powerhouse, having won 6 or 7 straight state titles now.
After the tour, Steve escorted me back to the main building. I gave him
a hug, shook his hand, and bid him a fond farewell. I doubt I'll ever
see him again in my life, but his memory will last my lifetime.
Steve Marsing Surprise Party
Tonight I attended a surprise party for my high school swim coach, Steve
Marsing, held at the Salt Lake City Sheraton. Steve recently retired
from teaching/coaching and is now an assistant principal at my alma
mater, Skyline High School. Steve coached some 25+ classes of kids and
all were invited to attend the party. I didn't get an exact count, but
there were probably around 300 people there at the party.
Steve was snookered (by his boss, the Skyline principal) into believing
he was attending a dinner/conference at the Sheraton supposedly presented
by some famous educational author. When Steve arrived, he even had the
author's latest book in hand... perhaps to seek an autograph. He was
genuinely surprised and completely overwhelmed by the amount of "kids"
that turned out for the event. It was great to see his face.
The dinner party was a unique opportunity for me to renew relationships
and catch up with many of my old high school friends... not only from my
own class (some of whom I've seen since at a high school class reunion),
but from the classes before and after me that were a part of
the team at the time I was in high school. Before tonight, I had not
seen many of these old friends in 20 years... and I may not ever see
them again. It was truly a once in a lifetime opportunity.
Scott Bybee, Paul Harding, Julie Leeper, and Scott Teerlink from the
class of 1986 were there. Brian Ellison, Becky Hebert, Mark "Sport"
Anderson, Elahe Mostagel, Randi Abramowitz, Diana Despain, and Mark
Dewyea from the class of 1988 were there. And there were a host of
"sophomores" there from the class of 1989 including my brother Brent,
Mike Dallon, Becky Cable, Amy Leeper, Chris Atkinson, Scott Johnson,
Dave's sister Deanna, and others. My brother Mark was there as well
with his buddies (from the class of 1991).
Of course, I also was able to talk with Steve. I had not seen him since
my senior year. He was an excellent coach. Someone I wish my kids
could have as their coach. He didn't just teach me how to swim, but he
taught me how to swim competitively... i.e. teaching skills such as stress
management, discipline, self-assurance, courage, selflessness, etc.
As a coach, he was an old-school by-the-book disciplinarian and ran a
tight ship. Yet we also had some great times playing "Sharks and
Minnows" and traveling on the road to many different swimming meets and
water polo tournaments.
I had a wonderful time and spoke with as many of my dear old friends as
time allowed. Many people are getting together again tomorrow night;
regretfully, I fly back to Seattle in the morning.
Here a few pictures from the affair:
The first is of Scott Bybee (class of 1986), Dave, and myself. We were
some of the first persons to arrive. The second picture is of my class
of 1987 teammates... from left to right: Andrea Levy, Dave, myself, Diana
Sherwood, Sue Benner, and Chris Krueger. Chris organized the entire
thing. The third picture is taken of Steve just as he entered the
ballroom... surprise!
Maryanne Elaine Transformed
I'm in Utah this evening to attend a swim team reunion. While at my Mom
and Dad's place I stumbled on a picture of my mother and her older
sister when they were little girls. When I saw the picture, I could not
believe how much of Eliana I saw in my mother. I scanned the picture
and sent it along to Kristy to review. Her impression is that she sees
a lot more of my mom in Brent's kids than in Eliana. Judge for
yourself, here is the picture (my mom is on the right):
You can see where Eliana got her hair and eye color from. And some of
Eliana's facial structure is similar too.
Berkeley's Preschool Class Pictures
Berkeley's brought home his preschool class pictures today. Here are
the scans:
The first picture is of his entire class (obviously). His teachers
are Miss Karen (on the left) and Miss Katie (on the right).
Voting Day
I cast my vote via absentee today. I've been checking the net to see
the latest results. On a local level, nothing I voted for passed.
I voted to repeal the state estate tax... but only about a third of my
fellow state-citizens voted the same way. Estate tax is probably the
most progressive (i.e. unfair) tax on the books; requiring only a small
portion of the population to pony up. The estate tax is the polar
opposite of a fair tax (e.g. a flat tax) where each person pays the
same percentage of their increase... a system that seems to be working
reasonably well for the LDS Church.
I also voted to rollback the
excessive environmental regulations governing private property that
unduly restrict property owners; the initiative was defeated by a
wide margin. *sigh*
I voted against forcing utility companies to generate a
portion of their energy using renewables... but that passed. Hey,
why have the market dictate when renewables are cost competitive?
Instead, let's have the government "incent" to force renewables on the
market before they are cost competitive (hello higher energy bills!).
Nationally however, I was pleased that the Reagan Democrats turned power
back over to the Democratic Party. I've been pretty disgusted with the
Republicans in Congress. After a promising start (in 1994) during the
Clinton years, Republicans have completely shredded the Contract With
America during the last six years. This is an extremely sad development
considering that many of the bills that were passed by Congress to
implement the 1994 Contract were then vetoed by Clinton; one would
expect that similar bills would be passed by the Congress since 2000
and then warmly welcomed (and signed) by Bush. Nope. Congress was
too busy rubber stamping Bush's very unconservative agenda. Perhaps a
few years in the wilderness will remind the Republicans why the people
voted for them back in 1994.
Impressionable Berkeley
Berkeley has a friend in preschool that he is constantly talking about,
a little boy named Evan. At first, Kristy and I were fairly excited
that Berkeley is making new friends. But lately we aren't so
enthusiastic. First there was this:
"Dad, I need some game cartridges.", stated Berkeley.
"What for?", I asked.
"I need to play some video games.", replied Berkeley.
"You can play games on my computer any time like Thomas and
Kids CBC, remember?"
Exasperated, Berkeley continued: "But Dad, I need game
cartridges. Evan plays games on game cartridges."
"Well, you play games on the Internet. You don't need
cartridges to play games."
Then the other day, there was this:
"Dad, do you want to play a game with me?", asked Berkeley.
"Sure.", I said. "What game?"
"Shooters. It's a game where you shoot all the girls
until they are dead.", explained Berkeley.
"Uh, where did you learn this game?", I inquired.
"At preschool... Evan taught me how to play."
Needless to say, we have had a few conversations with Berkeley about
what he is "learning" from preschool. I'd like to think it is sinking
in, but he seems quite enamored with his new friend. Just today after
jogging him over to school, I watched through the window as Berkeley
walked into the classroom, took off his coat, walk over to his friend
Evan, sat down next to him, and just sat there watching him play.
Everyone else in the classroom was playing, but Berkeley was just
sitting there watching this other little fellow play. When I asked
him about this, he said: "I just like to watch Evan play." Um, okay.
Kate's 2nd Birthday Party
Berkeley and Eliana were invited to our neighbor Kate's birthday party
today. The party theme was royalty (princes and princesses). The kids
love attending birthday parties. Eliana still talks about
Jenna's
5th Birthday Party even now... more than a month later. I snapped
just a few pictures (click to enlarge):
Eliana's Bedtime "Tents"
One of the unique rituals that is part of putting Eliana to bed is that
of making a "tent" for her to sleep under. The tent supports are made
by stacking two pillows on each side of her head. Then the covers are
pulled up toward the headboard as much as possible and then placed on
top of the pillow supports. Then the covers are tucked underneath the
mattress (if possible) or just under the pillows. This creates a small
covered cavity or cave or "tent" over Eliana's head. She can't go
to sleep without asking "Can you make a tent Daddy?" ... it's part of
the bedtime ritual now.
Floor Puzzles
I bought the kids a couple of big floor puzzles today; a castle for
Eliana and Thomas (of course) for Berkeley.
They had a lot of fun putting the puzzles together (we should probably
buy more of them... they are cheap toys and seem to provide a good
mental challenge). The puzzle activity tonight also
reminded me of assembling the 500-piece and 1000-piece puzzles while I
was growing up. My mother and I would work on the puzzles on the
dining room table. We also did a few over at Grandma Kiser's ranch.
Here is a picture of the kids with the Thomas floor puzzle:
Flashback: High School Memorabilia
My high school swim coach, Steve Marsing, retired from coaching last
year after 25 years. I was part of his 6th or 7th group of kids back
in my day (1985-1987). Next week I will be attending a high school
reunion of sorts. One of my peers is organizing a dinner party in
Steve's honor, which will be held next Thursday (shhh!). As part of
the party preparations, each alumnus was instructed to contribute some
old pictures to be included in a multimedia presentation. I scanned a
bunch of old pictures, documents, and newspaper clippings that my
mother preserved for me in some remembrance books (my apologies in
advance for the image quality of some of the photos).
The first set of pictures are of me (back in the day). From left to
right, the first picture was taken at some random swim meet. The lane
lines look green, so it could have been at Olympus.
The second is a picture of the pattern I shaved into my head before the
District Swim Finals in 1986. Each swimmer picked a pattern to shave
into their heads one week before the District (or State) Finals (we
would then completely shave our heads the day before Finals).
I decided to shave the phrase "Buddy Holly Lives" into my very short
hair. The pattern was inspired by the graffiti on the album cover of
a 1978 compilation album of Buddy Holly's
20 Golden
Greats (I was an avid fan of 50s and 60s rock-n-roll music at the
time). The
third picture is snapped at a water polo game, but I don't have a cap
on... so it must have been taken during pre-game warm-ups. The last
picture is one of myself and my close friend David Barnes and was taken
at some time during our senior year. David and
I hung out (through thick and thin) beginning when we were about 12
years old. We are still very good friends today.
The second set of pictures include both the swimming and water polo schedules
from my senior year. I also scanned a newspaper clipping that was written
about the 1987 swim meet between Skyline and Brighton (the "Battle of the
Paddle"). Skyline and Brighton, at the time anyway, were the dominant
swimming powers and detested rivals. Brighton was much better than we
were, having won the State Championships the previous four years running.
The last set of pictures are scans of portraits taken at various school
dances that I attended during my junior and senior years. As can be
observed somewhat readily, the same actors are present in many of these
pictures. Our swim team was a pretty tight group, probably because we
spent so much time training with each other. As such, we dated almost
exclusively within our group. Yes, kinda weird. Oh well... we had a lot
of fun.
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1985 Homecoming Dance
This event occurred during the first month of my junior year.
Top Row:
Me, Unknown Girl (non-swimmer),
Diana Sherwood, Scott Sternloff (diver),
Julie Leeper, Paul Harding
Bottom Row:
Scott Bybee, Candi Nelson,
Dave Barnes, Unknown Girl (non-swimmer),
Jennifer Gillette (Granger swimmer), Aaron Baar
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1985 Women's Preference Dance
This event occurred (if I recall correctly) during November of my junior
year. The young woman that I took to the dance, Becky Hebert, is one of
the nicest people you will ever meet. We still keep in touch even today.
Top Row:
Me, Becky Hebert,
Scott Sternloff (diver), Chris Keller,
Dave Barnes, Andrea Levy
Bottom Row:
Aaron Baar, Shelley Rogers,
Scott Bybee, Heidi McDonald,
Kris McCracken, Paul Harding
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1986 Senior Prom
The event must have occurred very early in 1986, most likely in January.
I can say that with confidence because the boys have all of the hair on
their heads.
I was a junior here, but anyone was allowed to attend "Senior" Prom at
my high school. Our high school proms weren't as formal as some. At my
wife's high school, Senior Prom was the biggest event of the year. One
where the boys would not think to attend dressed in anything but a
tuxedo. That's just not how it was at our school.
Top Row:
Andrea Levy, Julie Leeper, Unknown Girl (non-swimmer),
Becky Hebert, Unknown Girl (non-swimmer), Chris Keller
Bottom Row:
Aaron Baar, Craig Teel, Scott Bybee,
Me, Mark "Sport" Anderson, Brian Ellison
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1986 Seminary Ball
Our LDS Seminary hosted a ball in February on the weekend before State
Finals. It was girls choice and persons of all faiths were invited to
attend. I was asked to attend by
Kris McCracken, a young woman of the RLDS faith. The one memory I
vividly remember from the night was Kris and Scott Bybee (an active LDS
boy) engaging in lengthy (and heated) debates about whether or not
women should hold the priesthood (the RLDS Church allows women to hold
the priesthood, the LDS Church does not). It was an interesting evening.
You'll note that I am the only one with a shaved head. Coach Marsing
had me tapering for District Finals so I could qualify for State (which
I accomplished). So I shaved my head for District Finals which I think
was the day before; everyone else pictured shaved their heads a week
later.
Top Row:
Kris McCracken, Me, Diana Sherwood, Paul Harding,
Julie Leeper, Craig Teel
Bottom Row:
Aaron Baar, Andrea Levy, Tara Stauffer (non-swimmer), Scott Bybee
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1986 Junior Prom
I don't remember much about this date other than it was my first date
with Kim Williams. This is only memorable because after the dance a few
couples went up Millcreek Canyon and built a campfire. Kim and I then
passed the time staring at the fire and pretending that the other
couples weren't hidden under blankets making out. It was a bit
uncomfortable. Finally Kim and I went back to the parking lot and
talked in the car (yes, seriously, we just talked) until it was time to
go. Good times!
Becky writes: "For the record-- I was not part of the making out in
Mill Creek Canyon date. Scott Bybee and I spent the evening not
making out elsewhere." Thanks for the clarification Becky! lol.
Top Row:
Dave Barnes, Sue Benner, Me, Kim Williams,
Shelley Rogers, Unknown Boy (non-swimmer),
Bottom Row:
Andrea Levy, Aaron Baar, Scott Bybee, Becky Hebert
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1986 Homecoming Dance
This was the first dance of my senior year. I don't remember anything
about it, not even the name of the girl I invited. It does appear that
many of us invited non-swimmers for the Homecoming Dance (both in 1986
and in 1985), but then as the year progressed we quickly returned to
our circle of comfort (other swimmers).
Top Row:
Steve Bergen, Unknown Girl (non-swimmer)
Middle Row:
Craig Teel, Sue Benner, Mark "Sport" Anderson", Becky Hebert,
Unknown Girl (non-swimmer), Me
Bottom Row:
Sue Johnson (non-swimmer), Dave Barnes,
Aaron Baar, Robyn Galbos (non-swimmer)
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1986 Women's Preference Dance
This event occurred in early December of 1986 as I recall. I was asked
by Amy Leeper, the girl I was dating at the time. Amy and I dated off
an on for much of my senior year and my first year in college. We were
still dating when I left for Taiwan to serve my LDS mission. As is
often the case, we drifted apart while I was overseas.
Top Row:
Andrea Levy, David Tanner,
Becky Hebert, Craig Teel,
Amy Leeper, Me
Bottom Row:
Nick White, Unknown Girl (sophomore swimmer),
Becky Cable, Chris Atkinson
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1987 Senior Prom
My Senior Prom as a senior was pretty low-key. I invited Becky Hebert,
who was one of my best (purely platonic) girl friends at the time.
Despite the supposed formality of a "prom date", it was a very casual
affair.
Note: Dave was the senior class president. I think that is probably
why he was wearing a tuxedo - he looks sharp!
Top Row:
Paul Harding, Andrea Levy, Craig Teel, Diana Sherwood
Bottom Row:
Dave Barnes, Valerie Oakey (non-swimmer), Becky Hebert, Me
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(Updated Sat Nov 4 13:19:46 PST 2006 // added Sue Benner's name to
1986 Homecoming Dance caption... oops)
(Updated Mon Nov 6 09:48:33 PST 2006 // added Becky's clarification)
(Updated Mon Nov 6 09:50:05 PST 2006 // promoted from comments... Brent
identified Becky Cable's date at the 1986 Women's Preference Dance)
(Updated Mon Nov 6 09:52:25 PST 2006 // Aaron identified his dates)
Neighborhood Trick or Treat
We dressed up in our costumes again tonight for the real deal... door to
door trick or treating.
It's been cold here of late, so we bundled them up and put their
costumes on over the top of their clothes:
We only take the kids up and down our own street. Excluding our own
home, that is just 15 houses. It took about half an hour (maybe a
little less) to complete the circuit.
We returned home and let the kids dump their bounty on the kitchen
island. We only hit probably 12 homes, but their bags got pretty full.
We don't see a lot of foot traffic on Halloween, so everyone was pretty
generous. They ate a bit of the candy and then we settled down in the
family room and watched what else? The Incredibles! Olivia didn't make
it very late into the night,
she
fell asleep in Kristy's arms while were out trick or treating.
1 in 64
Olivia's eyes almost certainly will be blue.
Both Kristy and myself do not have blue eyes (brown and green
respectively), but we each do have one blue-eyed parent.
It is my understanding that as a result, the odds of each
one of our kids having blue eyes is 1 in 4. Now consider
the odds of us having three blue-eyed kids - it's 1 in 64.
Amazing.
Falling Back
If you have young children, daylight savings doesn't save a darn thing.
I was up this morning at 5am with Eliana instead of 6am! Thanks DST!
Trunk or Treat
Our church has a tradition of having an activity called "Trunk or Treat"
every Halloween season. The kids all show up at the church in costume
and participate in carnival-type games for an hour; games such as "cake
walk", "fishing", "bean bag toss", "twister", etc. It's a lot of fun
for the kids. After the games the kids go "trunk or treating" in the
parking lot.
Participating cars are lined up in adjacent stalls in the parking lot
behind the church. Each trunk of the cars is decorated (some are rather
sparse and some get quite ornate) and the owner of the car has some
candy to give away. The kids walk from each trunk to the next
"halloweening". It is a nice opportunity because it gets pretty dark up
here in the Northwest pretty early in the evening at this time of year.
After Daylight Savings Time kicks in, it gets pretty dark (and cold) by
5pm... so it is hard to stay out very long with young kids on Halloween
night. The kids can "trunk or treat" about two dozen cars in 10 minutes
and leave with a nice full bag of candy. Great tradition.
The five of us all dressed up as The Incredibles this year... yes, even
Olivia had a costume. Of course, we preserved the moment in pictures
(mouse-over pictures to get a description of the image; click on each
picture to enlarge).
The Hunt for a Low Cost Factory BMW Stereo
The backlight on the stereo in the BMW no longer functions. It has
been broken for some time now, but I finally got around to pulling the
stereo out of the dash and disassembling it today. I thought that it
may just be a matter of replacing a small bulb or something, but it
turns out that the part that is malfunctioning, the dim display, does
not appear to be user-servicable. Drat.
So I called up a few places today to see how much a used BMW factory
stereo would run for an E36 328. The first place I called wanted $290!
I laughed and hung up. I called two other wrecking yards but haven't
heard back. There is an outfit in Redmond that will repair my current
one for $125. That still seems like too much. So I checked eBay and
found three listings. Two that are still 4 days out and one that
ended earlier this evening. I put a maximum bid at $51 on it, but
someone wanted it more than I did (I lost... I need to work on my eBay
skillz). Bidding for the other two available (that close in 4 days)
start at $50.
Hopefully one of the other wrecking yards will call me back on Monday.
I'll use the established market prices on Ebay as leverage to barter the
price down (if possible). We'll see.
(Update Mon Oct 30 13:15:16 PST 2006 // no luck with the local wrecking yards)
(Update Mon Oct 30 22:49:52 PST 2006 //
BMW
came out with an updated model, the
"C43",
in 1999 that does not have the same dim display problems as the one
I have... which is called the "C33". It may be wise to look for
and purchase a used C43 instead.)
(Update Wed Nov 1 00:03:15 PST 2006 // lost out on another C33 on eBay
to some guy who looks like he just "flips" underbid BMW parts)
(Update Thu Nov 2 11:07:11 PST 2006 // C43's run about $120 on eBay;
or the same amount it would take to repair by C33)
Olivia on "Solid" Foods
We started feeding Olivia some applesauce and rice cereal today. Her
reaction was very positive; in fact, she seemed downright elated.
Olivia Three Months Old
Olivia turned three months old today, yet she hardly seems to have
been with us but for a couple of days. She is getting bigger... slowly
but surely. For fun, I browsed back in time and looked at Berkeley and
Eliana when they were three months old. Here is a closeup of each of
them (click to enlarge):
The similarities between Berkeley and Olivia are quite obvious. Both
have the same eyes, the same nose, and the same mouth. It's hard to see
much of Eliana in either of her other siblings... but things could
change. The
baby
pictures for Eliana and Olivia look more alike than do those of
Berkeley and Olivia. Time will tell.
The Baby Björn
We bought a "Baby Björn" infant
carrier when Berkeley was born. We've used it for each of our kids. It
is a lifesaver. I highly recommend it. Today Eliana wanted to carry
her dolly around in it. So I put it on her and snapped a picture.
Here is one of a real infant in the Baby Björn... our very own Olivia:
(Fri Nov 3 12:35:35 PST 2006 // now using UTF-8 version of ö)
Still My Little Boy
Berkeley is growing up fast. He is getting taller. His face is
lengthening and losing the "baby" look. His vocabulary, sentence
construction, and enunciation is often quite surprising (as in "did
Berkeley just say that?"). He just turned 4, but some of
his "4-yr-old" pants and long-sleeve shirts have become too short.
Oh, and he
doesn't call me "Daddy" anymore.
Yet, he is still just my little boy in many ways. For example, tonight
we went out to eat (at
Ruby's).
We finished our meal at about 6:30pm and started our drive back home.
During the drive Berkeley was thinking out loud about how "busy" his day
was... he recited a small list. I was driving and only really listening
to him in the background. When we got back home at 6:45pm, I cracked
the car door open in preparation to exit the vehicle. As the interior
dome light illuminated the interior, I looked back at the kids in their
seats. To my surprise, Berkeley had fallen asleep... sound asleep.
I carried him upstairs and put him in his bed.
He rarely falls asleep in the car anymore and
I don't think he has fallen asleep so early (6:30pm!) since he was
probably 1 year old.
Tax Returns and Tax Rates
My accountant has our 2005 1040 ready... he called me up today to inform
me that his work is complete. Why so
late? He lives in a federal disaster area, so he has been given extra
time to get all of his returns completed. I guess he has needed it,
since the final filing deadline is on October 31st.
Our accountant is a
capable person, but he is also fairly expensive ($150/hr expensive). I
think he is worth the expense, at least I hope he is. His bill for
preparing our 2005 taxes was about 15% of our federal tax burden. So if
he didn't save us more than 15% on our federal taxes, then I guess we
aren't coming out ahead (not considering the amount of time he is
saving me from doing the preparation myself). We were audited a few
years back. It was nice to have him around to represent our interests
(he got the case dismissed and we didn't have to pay a penny more than
what we had already paid). I'm fairly disgusted with the federal tax
system... it seems to require that you retain a professional to file
your taxes on your behalf. I recommend we move to a flat tax rate!
How about 10 or 15%?!
Speaking of tax rates, last year I read an
article
by Bruce Bartlett on the subject. Now that I have my completed 2005
1040 in my possession, that article is worth revisiting. After
crunching the numbers, my average tax
rate last year turned out to be 8.5%, which isn't too shabby considering
that my marginal tax rate is 28%. Maybe my CPA is earning his pay after
all! And um, forget about what I said about the flat tax rate.
Flashback: ECGL Application for Employment circa 1991
Dr. Jones sent me a copy of my original application for employment to
the Engineering Computer Graphics Laboratory. Jim stumbled on the
document this morning (click to englarge):
Teacups
One of the unique challenges of being an LDS family is providing
entertainment for toddlers during the hour-plus long
Sacrament
Meeting held each Sunday. The activities need to be engaging,
yet reverent. Coloring is good. Reading is good. Quiet playing
with cars (and trains and dolls) is sometimes good. But predicting
the erratic amusements of a toddler is, like I said, a challenge.
Coloring may work one week, but be completely ignored (and useless)
the next week.
However, one thing that we do every week to keep the kids somewhat
occupied during the actual
Sacrament
Ordinance itself
is provide the kids with a little extra bread and water (which
we give to them immediately after the bread and water are served...
respectively).
We bring the extra bread in a plastic baggie and the extra
water in a water bottle. I dispense the extra water into these little
plastic cups (the ones that are packaged with liquid Tylenol).
Today, after I had filled up the little cups with water, Eliana somewhat
loudly cried "Teacups!" and then tapped her cup against Berkeley's cup
(Berkeley responded with a softer "Teacups!" in kind).
Immediately after she did this, she then tipped the cup back into her
mouth and completely consumed her portion of water in one gulp (as did
Berkeley). It was pretty funny to observe, and so
I filled up the cups again. The same pronouncement of
"Teacups!" ensued, followed by the "chink" of the two plastic cups
together, and then the water was consumed. I could only shake my head
and I refilled the plastic cups several times.
I'm not sure if they made up their own version of a "toast" themselves
while playing "tea party" here at home or if they learned it from
somewhere else... my interrogation to this end proved to be fruitless.
But the little "Teacups!" interjection and the succeeding tap of the
cups is pretty humorous to observe.
Bowling, Bowling, Bowling
We went as a family out to bowl tonight (up in Snoqualmie per usual).
When I say "we went bowling", I mean that we went to the bowling alley
and then watched Berkeley and Eliana bowl. They are pretty fun to
watch and enjoy the activity immensely.
Berkeley will bowl without the use of the
ball ramp. Holding the ball in his hands against his midsection, he
will take about 10-12 running steps toward the line and then let his
ball go. He gets some pretty good velocity on it and even scored one
strike. Eliana, on the other hand, relies on the ball ramp to bowl.
The top of the ramp is at the level of her head, but she is strong
enough to lift a 6, 7, or 8-pound ball and rest it on the top of ramp.
I can state with certainty the height of the ball ramp because Eliana
likes to head-butt the bowling ball to get it started down the ramp
(instead of just using her hands... like a normal kid would). She's a
character.
Hiking Snoqualmie Tunnel
This morning I met up with the 11-yr-old scouts for a
5-mile hike. The 12-yr-old scouts had planned a 20-mile hike for
their hiking merit badge, so I figured we (the 11-yr-olds) could
tag along and then peel off after 5 miles.
A majority of the 11-yr-olds hiked the full distance anyway.
The 20-mile hike consisted of hiking along the Iron Horse Trail from
Hyak to Rattlesnake Lake (a distance of about 22 miles).
The trail is predominantly downhill and parallels I-90 for much of the
way. It is an old railway grade so the trail grade is very constant and
gradual (about 2%). The first 2.5 miles of the hike consist of hiking
through the Snoqualmie Tunnel... in the dark. After another 2 miles,
Iron Horse trail intersects with the Annette Lake Trail. It is there
that I peeled off with two boys (and two parents) and hiked down to
the Annette Lake Trailhead parking lot, where we had parked a car on the
way up to the Hyak.
It was a fun hike (the boys especially enjoyed the tunnel), very easy,
and didn't take that long (we left at 7am and were back by 10:30am).
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